Guidelines: Cohesion-building (Getting Along)

What is your planned cohesion-building strategy? You need a plan for this. Waiting for it to happen naturally, that might not work out. Groups need fun times, celebrations, and ceremonies for rebonding. This is true for all groups that try to retain a sense of unity, whether at the family, workplace, or national level. The memories of good times motivate members to stick with the challenge when it comes time for conflict resolution and consensus-building.

Understanding Personality

Although most groups will welcome a wide variety of personalities and the different skills and role preferences that come with them, yet these differences can create a sense of distance. Understanding other’s strengths can foster appreciation and help with role assignments that allow each to shine. A small remotely located group may find that outgoing types don’t find enuf social stimulation in the community. On the contrary, groups that regularly host events may find that extreme introverts don’t last long because of the constant demand of meeting new people, being consistently sociable, and remaining available to assist guests. One way to accommodate introverts would be to deliberately assign them to behind-the-scenes roles. See our page explaining how personality plays out in intentional community, based on the Big 5 and the MBTI

Meetings for Emotional Sharing and Open Communication

We foster close and/or harmonious interpersonal relationships in the following ways: …

  • We have regular opportunities to encourage all to share their feelings.
  • We have regular mandated “group work” to resolve conflicts as they arise.
  • All are required to share feelings in a group setting so we can maintain harmonious relationships, but your sharing can be brief.
  • Our community has obligatory group work where we are expected to help resolve disputes.
  • We allow relationships to develop naturally, rather than planning team building exercises or mandated group circles.
  • We check in with each other’s comfort with physical touch (a good article about consent culture).

Our group work processes summary page details several available options for group processes, many of which focus on sharing of experience and interpersonal connection. If your group has decided on a type of group format you prefer, it would be helpful to mention that in your IC description.

Do you have plans for meeting the following preferences and needs?

    • Guidance: A mentor or counselor to check in with monthly might help your group gain proficiency in a variety of techniques.

    • Emotional sharing: Many communities deeply believe in the importance of listening to each other, but find that they can’t get thru the management meetings if they allow the “feelings” part to continually derail the discussion of practical matters. Many ICs manage this tension by having one weekly meeting for practical decisions and a separate one for interpersonal discussion and conflict resolution. This may extend to emotional processing. Alternatively, emotional processing and other personal growth work may be a function that the members are requested to seek as a paid service.

    • Holding of personal or interpersonal challenges: This will give members a time for sharing info or concerns that are important to discuss, but they could derail the progress of practical functions if they became the focus during a business meeting.Ceremony and celebration: Celebrations of meeting a group goal or milestone, or religious observance, are important for cohesion.

    • Ceremony and celebration: Celebrations of meeting a group goal or milestone, or religious observance, are important for cohesion.

Activities for Fun and Bonding

Note what your group intends to prioritize as group entertainment. It’s important to have group activities for fun and bonding. Will you have a group library? Shared movie subscriptions? Are you close to outdoor recreation opportunities?

    • Play: Outings for fun are an important way to foster good relationships in the group. These can be scheduled on a regular basis. This could be a sport or favorite activity that members bond around.

    • Service: This is some kind of giving back, ideally an in-person monthly project, but could include kiva or other microcredit lending.

    • Collective chores: Aside from regular chores, sometimes a work party helps to rally everyone to participate in a once-per-year rather onerous and long task that is simple enough for everyone to participate in.

Guidelines: Benefits and Accountability for Work Contributions

photo by Jonathan Kemper

Roles and Responsibilities

For many people, the approach to roles and responsibilities seems obvious and intuitive. It might not be until you meet others with a different cultural background or experiences that you realize there isn’t one right way for all people. It’s important to make sure your group members don’t have wrong assumptions of others’ general attitude toward roles and responsibilities. The following statements can be agreed to at the same time without feeling that the statements contradict each other. These statements are from the profile questions, and are mostly helpful to determine whether someone has extreme views. Getting clear on the edge cases and exceptions is the challenge for a founders team.

  • Transactional relationships are more fair; to a reasonable extent there should be accountability through written agreements
  • In a reciprocal relationship you give about as much as you get, but it happens without keeping track
  • In a small family-like group, the saying applies, “to each according to their need, from each according to their abilities”
  • Clear responsibilities are important to minimize conflict
  • Flexible responsibilities are often best, which aren’t assigned or micromanaged

Member Work Benefits

Describe what benefits are available to those who provide the required work, asset contribution, monthly financial contribution, and/or financial investment.

  • Stipend or wage
  • Share in profits
  • Educational certification
  • Credit toward property shares
  • Lodging during negotiated timeframe
  • Produce or prepared meals
  • Access to shared resources

Contribution Accountability

  • Everyone is required to attend agreed-on decision making meetings
  • Everyone attends joint work sessions to ensure equitable work contribution
  • Group schedules flexibly timed work contributions to ensure equitable work contribution
  • Group uses recording system and regular reviews to ensure equitable work contribution
  • Group members all have oversight of each other and group agrees on consequences for breaking rules
  • Group allows spontaneity, goes with the flow, with many opportunities to renegotiate rules
  • Group accepts only members with high maturity level with expectation of self-governance
  • Undecided (i.e., we currently have no accountability)
  • Have a community cleaning pre-pay. Anytime someone forgets to clean up after themselves, whoever does it gets paid at an agreed-on pay rate out of that member’s prepay.
  • Anytime someone breaks or damages group-owned resources, they may pay some percentage of it based on possible negligence, but the remainder of replacement cost can be covered by the community funds.

Contribution Types

  • We negotiate contributions based on various inputs: financial contribution, property contribution (e.g., vehicle, real estate), and/or work
  • Everyone’s financial contribution should be proportional to what they receive of group benefits
  • Everyone’s work hour contribution should be proportional to what they receive of group benefits
  • Work hours should be negotiable based on physical exertion (e.g., digging), danger (e.g., roofing), general dislike (e.g., cleaning toilets), or acquired skill/credentials (e.g., welding)
  • Sharing income and resources should be mostly need-based
  • Everyone’s financial contribution should be the same
  • Everyone’s work hour contribution should be the same

___ hours weekly labor contribution or negotiable equivalent of payment to cover others’ labor cost.

___ is the per-person or per-family average expected contribution in work hours

Skills and Knowledge Needed

This list may help you to divide up responsibilities among your leadership team in the short term. In the long term, this list can help you determine what skill sets you still need to upgrade in your group or find in new members.

Daily chores:

  • Cooking for groups
  • Childcare
  • Cleaning
  • Gardening
  • Carpentry & repair
  • Farm animal care
  • Grant-writing
  • Bookkeeping
  • Group facilitation
  • Organizing & labeling

Governance:

  • Sociocracy or holocracy
  • Mediation or dispute resolution
  • Consensus facilitation

Business management:

  • Timebanking
  • Legal practice
  • Grant writing
  • Bookkeeping/accounting
  • Short term rentals & hospitality
  • Long term rentals & maintenance
  • Diversity, equity, and inclusion training

Site construction and management:

  • Ecological science
  • Horticulture or permaculture
  • Architecture
  • Natural building
  • Carpentry & construction
  • Welding
  • Waterworks & sanitation
  • Security & weapons
  • City planning, zoning, & compliance

Vocational skills for ICs:

  • Humanitarian or social work
  • Event planning & management
  • Event hosting
  • Animal training or care
  • Outdoor survival skills
  • Sports or physical recreation
  • Travel guide
  • Ordained minister or religious scholar
  • Photography or videography
  • Certification for teaching children
  • Experience teaching adults

Health and nutrition:

  • First responder (first aid) or EMT
  • Medicine – western
  • Medicine – alternative
  • Massage or other bodywork
  • Nutrition
  • Food handling certification trainer

Arts:

  • Filmmaking
  • Musical performance
  • Performative dance
  • Social dance
  • Standup comedy
  • Theater
  • Visual art

Communications:

  • Writing
  • Website design
  • Database management
  • Marketing
  • Public speaking
  • Political campaigning
  • Group therapy or group processing
  • Activism & organizing

Academic Subjects:

  • Computer science
  • Electric engineering
  • Mathematics
  • Physics
  • Astronomy
  • Anthropology
  • Psychology
  • Sociology
  • Finance & economics
  • Political science & history
  • Biological sciences

Language Required

This may be relevant if you are an expat group or bilingual group. If you have a bilingual community or frequently have guests who are not as familiar with the more used language, make sure your agreements about benefits and accountability for work contributions are translated.

Healthcare Benefits

Health insurance or membership with an independent physician association (IPA) is a benefit that the group may get a group discount for, possibly qualifying as a small business. An IPA may be a good cultural fit. For example, The Wellness Company is focused on prevention more than symptom management, medical freedom, respect for natural treatments, and the right to affordable health care.

Recommended Resources

Participation and Work in Community: An online course from The Foundation for Intentional Community (a separate organization from ICmatch)

Guidelines: Governance of Intentional Community

Governance of intentional community means how you make decisions and who gets to participate. Agreements need to be decided in detail to hold all group members accountable to each other. In order to stick together and feel that the situation is mostly fair, you have to agree on how to decide and who decides. The topic of governance needs to be discussed so that your group can get clarity on what processes you’ll use and when. If your expectation is equitable or egalitarian outcomes, those don’t simply emerge because of good intentions. Those are based on following processes that take into account the complexity of human nature. You have a better chance of success trying out some of those that others have refined over decades, rather than thinking you’re going to reinvent the wheel and somehow succeed in a project that so many have given up on.

photo by Jens Lelie

Governance Process

It may be that crucial long-lasting decisions are decided with a formal procedure of governance, while day-to-day less impactful decisions are made using simple conversation and reciprocity norms. It is important to be clear and upfront about the reality of the situation. For example, while IC-enthusiasts tend to favor egalitarian governance, there are often valid reasons to have an autocracy. In general, the people who have placed their credit or wealth on the line have more to lose, so they may feel it necessary to share power gradually as trust and buy-in of others increases. At the same time, most intentional communities are based on a shared interest in exploring governance styles that deviate from the norms of autocratic business leadership and from the democratic winners-and-losers outcome. If there is no shared decision-making and sharing the benefits of what is created together, the community is unlikely to attract people invested in full contribution.

We would love to simply tell you which is the most successful for governance of intentional community. Geoph Kozeny lived in six communities over 15 years then visited 300 to interview members and ex-members about what works. His response about what governance works: “Whatever the members wholeheartedly believe in” (Fellowship for Intentional Communities, 2014, p. 3). That said, sociocracy has gained popularity in more sizeable communities. Sociocracy benefits organization by dividing up decision-making into small groups. Your founder’s group will likely initially meet altogether, but you can use sociocracy meeting guidelines if you believe this system would serve your larger community well in the long run.

Reference: Fellowship for Intentional Communities. (2014). In community, intentionally. In Best of Communities: I. Intentional Community Overview and Starting a Community. Foundation for Intentional Community

Decision Makers

List the names of those who are committed or interested to be part of the initial decision-making processes.

Number of Members in Your Founders’ Group

Ownership of Physical Property

Who does or will own the building(s) and/or land on which you will reside? Is there a current or preliminary situation that will change over time? Some options are rent, rent-to-own, purchase. If jointly owned, how will ownership be structured? How will your initial team as well as newcomers buy in or buy out? In the footer, see the Contracts page and Financing page.

Avoiding autocracy: landlord/tenant agreement vs. intentional community

Leadership Meetings

Even before you have shared housing, you’ll need a basic framework for task assignment and decision making. Some people want to experiment with what comes naturally, while others want to start with a structure that worked for others. If you want it to always feel like a group of friends, without creating any rules, it’s important to consider how it will feel to others who may want to join. Will it feel like there is room for them or only for those with long-standing friendship? Will it feel like there are a few influential personalities that get their way more often than not?

It helps to record the following decisions:

  • Administrative tasks: When and by whom do administrative tasks get done? If they don’t get done, what happens? If hired out, who pays?
  • Agreement discussion and recording: When and how do group agreements get hashed out, recorded, and posted in an accessible location?

Weekly Planning Meeting

A weekly planning meeting is essential if (a) the group is functioning as an income-producing work team, (b) some of the group has closely shared housing, and (c) some members are not in the leadership meetings and so needs an update. During meetings one member, if not the meeting facilitator, could be given a task to be on the lookout that when someone brings up an issue that’s not directly relevant to completing the meeting agenda items. This member would be responsible to respectfully invite them to bring up the topic in the meeting devoted to interpersonal issues. Many consensus-based meetings close with a comment by each person. This gives a chance for each person to be heard, and themes to be picked up on for possible work in the next meeting. If you’ve gone overtime, you might have a round with each person offering just one word to end the meeting as a checkout.

Regular time and place of planning meeting:

Group-wide Communication Norms

  • Regular communication is crucial, because governance of intentional community breaks down without it. Decisions need to be communicated in order for them to be implemented. Rules need to be known and accessible for them to be remembered and followed.
  • Platform the group will consistently use for group-wide communication: Email, Telegram, Discord, Googlechat, Whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram, Videoconferencing, Loomio, Communecter.org, Hylo, Discourse, BuddyBoss, Mighty Networks, PeerBoard, Panion, Tru Movements, HumHub
  • Mandated check-ins or meetings: frequency and timing (e.g., check once per week for notices that will be notices will be available by Monday 9 am eastern time; members are expected to have read them by the following day 9 am eastern time)

Governance Participation Criteria

Describe what criteria are necessary for participation in decision-making at various levels. What attributes or contributions are required before someone is admitted into the leadership group or decision-making team, if there is one? Outside of trivial day-to-day decisions, do major decision-makers (a) need to have been in the community a certain amount of time and (b) need to be able to contribute a certain amount financially, such as owning shares? Are there term limits? Who will keep records of decisions and where will they be accessible?

Participation requirements for being part of a governance group:

  • Do all members need to participate in meetings, and if so how often?
  • If a member misses a mandatory meeting, with a defensible reason, how and when do they get a chance to weigh in?
  • Can a member pass or is speaking mandatory?
  • What are the governance roles of the group?
  • How and when will governance roles be re-decided in the future?

Record of Agreements

We invite you to use our templates to create a sharable pre-formatted record of agreements (see the section titled Templates for Your Agreement Documents).

Governance Case Studies

Case Study: Leadership dysfunction in an ecovillage: Studying effective and ineffective governance of intentional community can help your group avoid mistakes others have made.

Counteract Negative Human Tendencies

Without clear written agreements and contracts, there are fewer ways to curb bad behavior and self-interested motivations. Without guidelines for decision-making, power-plays and even bullying can derail your intentions for egalitarian structure. Without clear agreements, your community is more at risk of the following negative tendencies:

  • every decision might rest on a popularity contest, not on the long-term best interests of the group
  • every decision might become subject to “might makes right;” an owner who has ultimate veto power won’t be challenged
  • those who give kickbacks to build up personal alliances will undermine the group for their own self-interest
  • dark triad types can accrue increasingly more power without others noticing, until they take over

Further reading: This article by a seasoned communitarian discusses consensus-based decision making.

Intentional Community Elders

This list is limited to people over age 50, not only to honor those intentional community elders who have spent several decades (if not a lifetime) of focus on ICs, but because fortunately there are so many great young upstarts that a full list of who’s who would be far too long for our modern attention spans.  

Diana Leafe Christian

Diana gives a 13-minute video overview of what it takes to create a successful lasting intentional community and a 45-minute presentation on how ecovillages benefit the wider culture.

Notes from a talk on resolving the three types of conflict in ICs are a preview to her upcoming book.

Major Contributions

Creating a Life Together: Practical Tools to Grow Ecovillages and Intentional Communities, and Finding Community: How to Join an Ecovillage or Intentional Community. Contributed chapters to several other popular ecovillage-related books. Ecovillage Design Education (EDE) trainer for Gaia Education, and editor of Communities magazine for 14 years.

Affiliations

Diana currently works with the Global Ecovillage Network (GEN) as a board member of GEN-US and lives in Earth Haven Ecovillage.

Recent Focus or How to Connect

She is writing an additional book on ICs. She teaches online courses and workshops, “Sociocracy for Intentional Communities,” “Helping Your Community Thrive,” and “Starting a Successful Ecovillage or Intentional Community.” Connect at https://dianaleafechristian.org/

Laird Schaub

Laird gives a 5-minute interview of some aspects of intentional community. He teaches an excellent online course Designing a Community Membership Process through the Foundation for Intentional Community website.

Major Contributions

Laird helped begin the Foundation for Intentional Community (FIC), where he served as the main administrator for 28 years. Laird has lived for four decades at Sandhill Farm, an income-sharing rural community that he helped found.

Affiliations

He currently serves as the FIC Executive Secretary.

Recent Focus or How to Connect

Other courses he teaches include “Consensus for Communities” and “Examining Intentional Community Living for Seniors,” both thru FIC, as well as consulting. He has been a regular contributor to Communities Magazine and included IC topics in his blog.

Senior Cohousing

Community Cohousing for Seniors

One survey participant complained about their search in a directory listing senior cohousing: “Thus far, I have not found any established community with house purchase costs under $300k. I had no idea ‘intentional community for seniors’ meant wealthy only!”

Many consider baby boomers to be generally well off, without realizing that there have been serious and disproportionate erosions in the market-investment 401K savings of some who believed they were making cautious and normal decisions about their retirement funds.

Due to legal (but now questionable) financial practices that are described as the Retirement Gamble, many elderly see no potential to quit working, ever. Intentional communities like senior cohousing offers a way to preserve dignity by combining resources to save on costs, as well as enjoying the camaraderie of their peers.

Fortunately, there are many senior cohousing arrangements that are workable and can be replicated. Explore the options listed below. For a “how-to” guide to setting up a retirement community, see the Resources section below.

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affordable retirement housing options

1. Invite in part-time help.

Some seniors don’t want to give up their own homes, even when the home is larger than they need and a burden to keep maintained. Living with a younger couple or individual to help with physical chores and a sense of security can help seniors remain independent longer. These part time caregivers can drive seniors, do household chores and errands, and help seniors remember their medications. This younger-housemate option could be facilitated by creating a separate private unit within the home, where building codes allow. Check out the page Trial Run: Join a Household to see who might be a good match in your area. In addition, search online for “home share programs” that match up a younger person or couple to live in a senior’s home with them.

2. Invite in full-time help and other seniors.

If affordable round-the clock care is needed, you might look for care-team members who can move in rent-free in exchange for part-time caregiving duties. Having reliable people close by can bring you peace of mind when you or someone you love needs consistent help. These could be part of a team that includes paid professionals that come periodically to meet specialized needs. You might invite another elder needing similar care to move in, if the residents seem they might enjoy each others’ company.

3. Invite in other seniors.

Living with other seniors in the same home is an idea popularized by the sitcom The Golden Girls. Many seniors value the company and security this gives them. People nearing retirement may be looking to pool their income with a few other compatible individuals or couples.

4. Cohousing for seniors.

Condominiums (also called strata) have been one of the fastest-growing types of residential facilities targeting retirees. These cohousing residents have their own separate units but some shared space such as recreational and laundry facilities. Some of these are housing cooperatives in which residents own shares in the collective and have participation in the community’s governance. They can hire out physical chores and feel comfortable that there’s medical help nearby whenever needed. Some communities contract for affordable care, so that members have increased assistance as they age. One of the biggest draws is continued social contact, which is a challenge for the elderly as their cohort gets smaller over the years.

5. Enjoy retirement outside urban environments.

Buying semi-rural or rural property together may result in a more affordable location in a scenic spot. If it’s not a priority to have a location close to health care, buying remote land can offer a way to live closer to outdoor recreation opportunities. To discuss feasibility of utilizing remote land for multiple dwellings or for RV parking, contact one of our trusted real estate professionals listed on the consultants page or the consultants section below.

Examples

Senior Cooperative Foundation directory: lists cooperatively owned housing for seniors in the U.S.

Senior Cohousing Advocates directory: lists communities for age 55+ in Canada and the U.S.

Orchard Gardens Coop RV Park: a gated community for those 55 and older. They have a pool, clubhouse, and activities. Members rent (long-term or short-term) or purchase space to park an RV or install a manufactured home. Each property owner is an equal shareholder, with each lot having voting privileges. Weekly meetings are held with all shareholders. The coop has an elected Board of Directors that oversees the community operations. There is also an Architectural Review Committee that ensures the voted-on aesthetics of the community are maintained.  

BCOFR: From humble beginnings three decades ago, a group of BC activists created an organization that now has over 120 staff and a multi-million dollar budget to operate a seniors assisted living complex and adult daycare center, and housing for women who are victims of domestic abuse.

Elderberry Cohousing: This rural IC was self-created, self-managed, and self-directed. They state that all members have an equal voice in consensus-based community decisions.

Consultants for Senior Cohousing

Members Interested in Senior Cohousing

Resources

The National Shared Housing Resource Center keeps a directory of U.S. homeshare programs. Some sites match elderly homeowners with a younger caretaker who stays for free in exchange for negotiable chores.

canadahomeshare.com matches college students to elderly homeowners.

Nesterly.com matches younger renters to seniors or people with a disability, for reduced rent.

Care.com can help a group find younger caretakers that don’t live on site.

The Senior Cohousing Handbook: A Community Approach to Independent Living: a guide to to help groups create age-in-place senior cohousing, by Charles Duret.

Grants for elderly in the U.S.: This list is organized by state. These grants or scholarships can be applied for by individuals. You do not need to have non-profit status or be under the umbrella of a government agency.

Betsy Morris and Raines Cohen: consultants for senior cohousing (not affiliated with icmatch.org).

Retirement communities make use of legislation exceptions that allow them to limit residents by age and gender. It is legal to advertise an accepted age range and gender limitations as a retirement community.

Here is an informational resource that can help you communicate the growing need for community for seniors. Stephen J. Shaw discusses the devastating implications of aging populations across the Westernized world. In Japan, which is at the lead in the global trend of a shrinking younger population to care for elders, seniors in immediate need of a care home routinely spend 3 years on a waiting list. He predicts that some future cities with a high cost of living will be filled with mainly younger generations, while the majority of elderly people will only be able to afford to live on the outskirt communities, where there are few younger people.

If you have a shrinking workforce to pay the interest on those [national debts], I mean you’re going to have a real pressure on the younger people to continue to have anything like the quality of lifestyle that we’ve had before, so communities are going to look different. I really worry about loneliness in all of this.…People who don’t find a partner, people who don’t have children…are likely to face a level of loneliness. And there’s many support groups online…people in this situation who, they’re dealing with a level of loneliness…so there’s a community in Japan where I visited where 50 years ago it was filled with younger families, and today it’s only older people, but it’s mainly older women living there alone, because partners men tend to die younger….we went to the local grocery store and we hear that these women come out maybe once a week to do the shopping, and they’re spending forever talking while they’re paying for their groceries, because that’s the only person they’re getting to talk to weekly. We’ve gotta do something about this. Clearly we can’t let people remain in their apartments without a sense of community. But we’re going to have to think about so many issues…that we’re not scratching the surface of yet. (4:20)

Needs-based housing and social safety nets: See other resources listed at this page.

Community organizing trainers

ICmatch community organizing trainers can help a variety of intentional community types:

  • Ecovillages often need to approach local policymakers to advocate for zoning exceptions or policy change.
  • Small farms and ranches may seek to change municipal laws. Advocates spread awareness of corporations harming communities thru chemical intensive horticulture and inhumane factory farming.
  • Activist communes may work to ban corporate waste dumping that affects their entire community

What is community organizing?

The following organizing can also help an IC to strategize about a neighborhood-wide network of sharing economy projects.

  • Making use of the voluntary grassroots efforts of a community’s members acting jointly to achieve an economic or other benefit
  • Generating a collective ideology-based “voice” (consensus message) thru individual, face-to-face meetings
  • Developing a coherent strategy for building power and resources to make specific social changes
  • Helping those affected by a problem to speak for themselves
  • Teaching institutional leaders how to build relationships of trust across racial, faith, economic and geographic lines

A community organizing trainer: Here is one seasoned Canadian consultant among others listed.


Community organizer funding strategies

Organizing is often in the service of disadvantaged groups who are unable to fund their efforts thru dues or donations. They rarely receive funding from government since their activities often seek to contest government policies. Grantors more often fund service activities and shy away from groups with contentious approaches or controversial aims. ICmatch can help community organizers to pool resources and reduce expenses, freeing up time for organizing work.

Community organizing strategies for recruiting members

The following is in part a summary from the Wikipedia “Community organizing” article:

  • Protest: Speaking out generates a sense in the larger community that they have the power of consensus. This may enable them to negotiate with powerful institutions or groups.
  • Doorknocking: Organizers go door to door to inform and draw individuals into an organization.
  • Block-club organizing: This means two sides of a street on a block are organized into a club, or tenants in a building are organized, to divide and clarify workloads of members.
  • House meetings: A series of house meetings are held in a community, leading to a community congress to form an organization.
  • Sociocracy approach: Problems located across a particular community need local people acting toward solutions. Then leaders come together in a larger organization to strategize and work toward coherence.
  • Coalition building: Teaming up with any organization that has similar goals can strengthen a cause.

What community organizing is not

The following is a condensed version of the Wikipedia “Community organizing” article in the section on “What community organizing is not.” The following activities may be similar to or part of community organizing, but do not alone qualify as community organizing:

  • Activism: engaging in social protest but may lack a coherent strategy for building power or for making specific social changes
  • Mobilizing: gathering to effect a specific social change (such as a march or rally) but without a long-term plan
  • Advocacy: speaking for others who are deemed unable to represent their own interests, which may happen without including helping those affected to speak for themselves
  • Social movement building: coordinating a diverse collection of individual activists, local and national organizations, advocacy groups, multiple and often conflicting spokespersons, held together by relatively common aims but not a common organizational structure
  • Legal action: if a social action strategy focuses primarily on a lawsuit, it can push a grassroots struggle into the background and benefit only the defendant(s)
  • Direct service: providing services thru civic engagement can sometimes hinder community organizing if powerful groups threaten the “service” component in an effort to prevent collective action
  • Community development: improving communities through a range of strategies, usually directed by educated professionals working in government, policy, non-profit, or business organizations, even if it includes a community participation component and seeks out existing community strengths
  • Nonpartisan dialogues about community problems: meeting to discuss community problems, open to a diverse range of opinions, out of which some consensus may be reached, but lacking a team with skills to implement solutions

Group Facilitator

Group facilitation is a generalist role. Often facilitators are called to help with a decision-making process or to moderate discussions at an event. Group facilitators need a varied skillset. Their job includes monitoring time, group process, emotions, and behaviors. Needs for extensive and specific group work might be better met by consultants with specific skillsets, such as mediators to help with conflict resolution. The following list describes how a group facilitator can benefit your group discussion. These descriptions can also be used to help a group that is using its own members as facilitators.

Value of External Facilitators

While it may seem that someone in your group could do an adequate job at facilitating, the following are some ways an external facilitator is helpful:

  • The internal facilitator makes a trade off of not being able to focus on and contribute because they’re distracted thinking about how to manage time and keep the agenda moving. 
  • Trying to be the facilitator and a contributor at the same time introduces a power imbalance, where the facilitator might keep the group focused more on a topic they believe is most important, even if they intend to be fair about time allocation.
  • External facilitators likely don’t have an emotional attachment to certain people or topics, so they can be more objective. They can create inclusive, equitable spaces.
  • External facilitators can offer a fresh and unbiased perspective on challenging issues. This can help group members remain engaged, with the expectation that their current contribution and attitude will be more important than times in the past when they may have been unimpressive.
  • As consultants, facilitators take a leadership role in a meeting without having a conflict of interest, without a personal stake or involvement in the issues discussed, and without decision-making power over the group members.

Time Monitoring

  • Sets the pace by mentioning set timeframes for discussing specific topics, redirects if discussion gets more detailed than is useful
  • Keeps track of time, such as by suggesting when to have a “bio break”
  • Suggests break-out groups for a set amount of time
  • Closes the group, which could take the form of an evaluation; the facilitator might name instances of desired group behaviors, in order to promote them, such as cooperation, mutual trust, constructive disagreement, and encouragement

Process Monitoring

  • Ensures that all are clear about the meeting’s purpose and agenda items
  • Re-focuses the group if it strays from the process agreed on for the meeting or if members are unfamiliar with the process
  • Balances group input, ensuring that all viewpoints are heard,  by drawing out less talkative members and making sure the most talkative don’t dominate
  • Helps the group stay on topic by noticing tangents, suggesting a revisit of a topic later if it’s important, and redirecting to the agreed-on agenda or priorities
  • Clarifies by inviting background information when needed, examining assumptions, rephrasing another’s potentially confusing statement, summarizing, checking for group’s level of agreement, asking for feedback on the facilitator’s statements
  • Helps track the discussion by making notes, often as a large display such as whiteboard, about important points such as an agreement reached
  • Points out when some are treating opinions as facts
  • Reformulates the discussion by creating a list of areas of agreement and areas of disagreement, which can change throughout the meeting (Centre for Conflict Resolution, 1981).
  • Leads a group to list its available resources to meet a defined need (and might inform the group about external resources)
  • Notices if there is too little understanding of a problem, then suggests factfinding and possibly postponing a decision
  • Makes sure that group members who have come to a decision have the same understanding then clarifies who will be responsible to carry out the task, what they will need from the group,  when it will be done, and how the group will know it was done
  • Asks any uncooperative or disruptive participant to correct their behavior, take a break away from the meeting, or leave (probably the most challenging, and infrequent)

Emotion and Behavior Monitoring

  • Starts with introductions or an ice-breaker activity if many of the participants are not familiar with each other
  • Monitors emotional responses and skillfully smooths over tense moments, ideally without a disruption of the meeting
  • Points out when a there appears to be suppressed feelings or conflict, if that fits with the intent of the meeting
  • Helps the group self-correct by pointing out unhelpful actions of group members, such as pressuring, scapegoating, exaggerating, or minimizing
  • Identifies interpersonal communication problems that are getting in the way of discussion
  • Brings up group member ideas anonymously if group has a bias about ideas depending on who they come from
  • Encourages the group to persist by acknowledging a difficulty but pointing to progress made

The Centre for Conflict Resolution (1981) asserts that a group can learn to take on these facilitation roles themselves.

The issue of power is inherent in structuring. The positions of facilitator and recorder, of first speaker, presenter, and devil’s advocate all carry influence. Many groups rotate the instituted positions of facilitator and recorder to spread the influence fairly and to share and build skills. (p. 40)

It may be instructive to see these roles demonstrated by an experienced facilitator before asking group members to take on these roles. See the Consultants page for consensus facilitators, team recreation guides, and general group facilitators.

Reference

Centre for Conflict Resolution. (1981). A handbook for consensus decision-making: Building united judgment. Fellowship for Intentional Community.

Consultant Services

Our list of independent consultants represents a wide variety of skills needed by residential intentional communities. While the DIY ethic is admirable, there’s a lot to be said for getting some expert guidance to jumpstart your project. Many founders’ groups hire a consultant to teach them skills that they can gain proficiency at, then utilize themselves. The following are some of the most in-demand consultant services.

consultants

Getting Along as a Group

Group mentor

Group mentors develop familiarity with your group members over time. They may not have specific certifications but are wise and experienced. The understanding they develop about your particular group is a key component to their assistance.

Consensus facilitator

These professionals specialize in guiding groups in coming to difficult decisions using consensus-based decision-making.

The Foundation for Intentional Communities offers an excellent online course on consensus processes in intentional community.

Group facilitator

These professionals have a variety of specialized skills listed in their profile descriptions. As generalists, they may guide groups in coming to difficult decisions using a variety of methods an IC or founding group has chosen. This category is intended as a catch-all for group processes other than consensus decision-making. Follow this link to a further description of group facilitators, along with tips for groups in a DIY phase to take turns as facilitators.

The Foundation for Intentional Communities offers an excellent online course on group facilitation in intentional community. Topics covered include how to work with content, emotions, and how to delegate effectively.

Mediator (conflict resolution)

Ideally, in an intentional community, there is a hope for an equitable outcome rather than any one party trying to have the greatest gain for themselves. We invite our legal consultants to list based on their experience with intentional communities or their training as mediators. The one consultant can act as an intermediaries rather than having a double cost of representative for each side. For relatively minor concerns, you might hire a group facilitator trained in conflict resolution. Many facilitators can do an adequate job at less expense to your group than a legal professional. Be sure to recap and write up the agreement promptly, preferably before the end of the meetings. This helps ensure that everyone’s understanding and memory of the agreement is the same. Get the agreement signed by all when finalized. Give each member a signed copy of the agreement, so there is no question later of whether unauthorized changes were made.

Leadership

These professionals have skills in sociocracy, holocracy, business or non-profit, or general community leadership experience.

The Foundation for Intentional Communities offers an excellent online course on diversity in intentional community.

Team building (recreational)

You might find these consultants helpful to add in the mix for retreats or for getting to know prospective members during visitor sessions.

Membership consultant

These consultants can help you design processes for recruiting, onboarding, and maintaining members who are a good fit for your intentional community. No IC can meet the needs of all people, so it is important to get clear on what characteristics you will prioritize.

Laird Schaub teaches an excellent online course on membership thru the Foundation for Intentional Communities. This is a great place to start. As you get more clear on all aspects of your needs and plans, a consultant can help you refine your processes further according to your specific needs and intentions.

Diversity consultant (as a subset of membership consultants)

These consultants can also help members understand and work thru challenges in understanding others and cooperating, as members from diverse cultures and backgrounds work together. For example, intentional communities often have difficulty recruiting and retaining ethnically diverse members. Many intentional communities want to attract members who differ from the local norm in race, gender, sexuality, education, socioeconomic status, or disability. Hiring a diversity consultant can help you better understand the barriers to inclusive community-building, and provide solutions moving forward.

The Foundation for Intentional Communities offers an excellent online course on diversity in intentional community.

Bringing in Income and Resources

Youth education programs

These professionals have a variety of specialized skills listed in their profile descriptions. Some have experience with charter school setup and alternative education styles such as Montessori and Waldorf.

Self-employment

Often remote communities are interested in ensuring that their residents have viable livelihoods. This could include a business that several or most members are engaged in, or individual businesses.

Business management

These professionals have experience with the business and non-profit aspect of ICs. This is more than just book keeping. Look for consultants who run a similar type of operation to your IC or planned IC. If part of your business is to offer space for or to coordinate retreats, hire our listed consultants as presenters. In addition, the consultants listed for team building have skills and recreational activities to delight guests as well as your own IC members.

Marketing or website expert

These professionals have in-depth experience with ICs and know how to increase your visibility. Follow this link for a further description of how marketing experts can benefit your IC.

Grant writer

Our listed grant writers may be able to direct you to relevant funding sources even if you are not a certified non-profit organization. Professional grant writers may also be willing to train one of your members to do the bulk of the grant searches and research. Nonprofits such as Open Collective may be able to act as an umbrella organization to support your funding of a project that meets their guidelines.

Financial and Legal Setup of ICs

Lawyer

Even with the best of intentions on both sides, written agreements are crucial. Our listed lawyers can help you with document preparation. You need your agreements to hold up in court, even if you trust your partners thoroughly. Consider that in the event of one of you passing, an inheritor of the partner’s assets may be a challenge to deal with. In addition, by making clear everyone’s commitments, you give yourselves a mandate to discuss potential challenges thoroughly. This can prevent misunderstandings or disputes. For any financial interactions, agreements should be in writing, signed, and dated. Most likely everyone will maintain their good will and compliance with the agreement. Yet it is still possible that a members’ unexpected death would cause uncertainty about how much was contributed by each member. You should have signed records to prevent loss of your contributions. Don’t make it something you think you’ll get around to later.

Each state has different laws around housing, so we recommend you check local jurisdictional requirements and limitations. It is important to consult with a lawyer for specifics on your situation. Get legal advice relevant to your state or province. With our listed consultants, you can limit your search by area. Often, a legal aide can assist you in writing your agreements at a lower cost. Then you should get a final review by a lawyer and officially file the document with the appropriate governing body.

Realtor

Our listed realtors specialize in multiple-party purchases or are actively upgrading their understanding of location-specific legal options for joint ownership.

Finance advisor

Our finance advisors specialize in community-related contexts.

Financial institution or lender

These are funding or lending institutions that are willing to work with unconventional loan structures or mixed mortgages.

Land & Property Development

Property management advisor

Our property managers have successfully worked with groups for several years. They can guide you in establishing time-tested procedures related to facilities management, rentals, and hospitality services.

Zoning & compliance specialist

It’s best to find these professionals as local to you as possible. Even when distant, they can guide you in working with local municipalities to change or adapt regulations. If they aren’t familiar with your area, they can at least help you know what questions to ask.

Permaculture designer

It’s best to find these professionals local to you, familiar with the climate and regional plants. Hiring one after property purchase but before planning the layout of your community. This strategy will help you avoid mistakes and make the most of your natural assets.

For mundane ongoing advice, many state universities employ a master gardener who is available at no cost to consult. They have regional knowledge to diagnose diseases and pests. Search for “extension service” along with your state’s name.

Natural builder

It’s best to find these professionals local to you. Locals will be familiar with the best green building materials for your climate and familiar with local regulations.

Sanitation & water systems

It’s best to find these professionals local to you, familiar with specific offices and regulations.

Animal husbandry specialist

If you can’t find these professionals local to you, or willing to travel, you might find local farmers or community garden coordinators willing to act as consultants.

Disaster Relief Temporary Shelter as a Prepaid Service

Small farms or ecovillages may play an important role in emergency preparedness and should be able to profit from this potential. The emergency timeshare contract is one way to potentially bring in funds at the present time for a service that will be provided at an unknown time in the future. That future service is to house people who have experienced a natural disaster that has made their current housing uninhabitable, and which likely would have reduced or eliminated the supply of available short term rentals in the area. Including disaster relief temporary shelter as a function of an intentional community also can help create ongoing supportive external relationships.

Emergency Timeshare Contract: A Template and Example

X ecovillage/farm is situated on x acres in x county. We have x permanent long-term residents and have been members of the Foundation for Intentional Communities for x years. The leadership consists of… and has been stable since…. Reviews of our establishment and leadership team can be found at…

We are offering a limited number of emergency timeshare contracts that will afford the purchaser 3 months of shelter, food, and other necessary provisions in the event of an emergency. Contracts will be valid for a 10-year period and can be renewed. Longer stays can be negotiated if needed. Contracts include access to a share of the following resources:

Provisions Included 

  • Water: We have a spring on the property that runs year round and is uncontaminated.
  • Food: We have x lbs of beans and grains stored for emergency use. You are welcome to store on the property x lbs of your own provisions, labeled with your full name, in waterproof rodent proof containers, up to a volume of 1.5 cubic meters.
  • Fuel for cooking and heating: We have firewood stored and acres of wooded area from which to gather wood.
  • Energy: We have the following provisions for solar electric: ________.
  • Gardening: We have a garden and wild edibles on the property to be harvested on an as-needed basis at the owner’s discretion, due to our need to ensure a seed stock.
  • Emergency subsistence: Two members of our community have survivalist training.
  • Safety: Two members of our community have first responder training and first aid supplies.
  • Hygiene: We have a septic system and have protocols for safe waste and wastewater management for groups during an emergency.
  • Shelter: There are four houses, three of which can be reserved for your and your companions’ sole use. At a lower cost, there are some tent shelter spots available.

Training for Community Living

In the event of an emergency, we will need to work together, possibly under stressful conditions, and definitely with some who will be experiencing grief and anxiety. It will be helpful for the group of potential emergency residents to know each other and practice consensus decision-making beforehand. We will invite you every odd-numbered year to gather for a weekend (one overnight) of workshops and team-building activities. The cost of these is included in the contract payment, with no refund for non-attendance. We expect a good-faith effort to attend. After a natural disaster, members may be grieving loss of loved ones and substantial assets. Emotional distress can lead to heightened challenges interacting with a group. If emergency residents have some amount of familiarity with daily routines of group planning, mealtimes, and available pastimes, this can alleviate the pressure on the management and staff as they attempt to meet the needs of all present. Your participation can help facilitate a more comfortable and safe experience for the long-term and short-term residents. The training is valuable for leadership and interpersonal relationships. We aim to make the gatherings a retreat-like experience where visitors enjoy conversations and practice useful decision-making skills.  

Available Shelters

We have x tent spots and tents. The common areas and bathrooms of the main house will be available to tent-site renters.

Upper house: This can be reserved for your and your companions’ sole use at the price of $___. It has x bedrooms and 1 bathroom.

Artist studio: This can be reserved for your and your companions’ sole use at the price of $___. It has one futon bed and 1 half bath.  

For further details about the site, see the Airbnb accommodations labeled ______ and the Hipcamp accommodations labeled ______.

For a vacation that is not an emergency, you’ll need to pay the same booking price as anyone else. You’ll still book thru Airbnb for non-emergency stays. Whoever may be temporarily renting each place will be allowed to remain on the property during an emergency, but will need to relocate to a tent site to make space for the owner of the emergency timeshare contract after their own contracted stay expires, or work out a shared tenancy agreement. The short term renter may negotiate a rent depending on how long they extend their stay and utilize emergency provisions.

Whatever short-term renters are currently on site at the time of an emergency, we’re not going to send them off site if their own homes are inaccessible or most likely uninhabitable, so you may have to share housing and outdoor accommodations with some people who you are not familiar with until the end of their contracted stay, at which time they will be offered other on-site lodging.

Emergency Access

We will define your access privileges in this way:

  • Earthquake: If your apartment or home became uninhabitable or you fear looting and rioting as a result of a social unrest that is developing, that is an emergency, but let’s discuss it before you come if communication allows. A few break-ins nearby doesn’t mean there’s widespread danger. In a small-scale emergency, you will use up some of your 60-day emergency time allotment or pay as an Airbnb guest, as decided by owners after negotiating with you.
  • Pandemic: If the CDC reports a transmissibility level and lethality greater than or equal to the first major outbreak of COVID-19, and you are in a high risk group, this constitutes an emergency for you.
  • Other: If FEMA or the national guard is called in and your home is within the boundaries of the stated area of disaster, you will be allowed emergency access.

We recommend packing a 72-hour emergency backpack that includes a printed map to the property (see maps section with detailed travel directions). Some keep their emergency kits in their car, which may make their kits more accessible when buildings have collapsed.

Map

You are responsible for transporting yourself to the property. The approximate location is shown in the map section. You will be provided with pdf maps upon payment of contract. Please prepare yourself with any additional printed maps relevant to your likely travel route. As you may know, you can travel safely by foot or bike on the Golden Gate Bridge, as there is a divider for traffic. The bridge is overly reinforced to be able to withstand severe earthquakes. Google maps says it would take 7 to 10 hours by foot, starting from Golden Gate Park, depending on which route you take. It is about a 45 minute drive. 

Your Responsibilities During an Emergency

  • Follow the site rules and the group rules created by consensus.
  • Participate in 1/2 hour morning meetings that keep everyone informed.
  • Participate in hour-long weekly consensus decision-making processes.
  • Use good judgement to preserve the physical and mental wellbeing of yourself and others.
  • All able-bodied persons will be asked to assist if there is a crisis that threatens group safety.

Added Unapproved Guests

Unplanned added guests must be persons who were houseguests of yours during the time of emergency. The landowner has the right to refuse or grant access. Added guests will need to be in your lodging, share your rations, and will be assessed a negotiated lodging fee afterward, roughly equivalent to the Airbnb lodging rate for the time they stay. You may not receive payment from them for the access. Any person included in your contract or as your guest, 13 years of age or older, must have access to participate in group decision-making.

Drugs

Marijuana and tobacco use is allowed outdoors only. There are ashtrays located in the outdoor seating areas. Be responsible about fire danger.  To ensure the safety and well-being of us all, we need to ensure that we are not accepting people who are struggling with addictions in a manner that substance abuse or withdrawal symptoms would become problematic for community life.

Acceptable Behavior

Unacceptable behavior will be discussed by the group. Ultimately at the landowner’s discretion, if a group member is repeatedly non compliant with pre-established rules or with consensus-based decisions, they may be made to leave the property or to isolate themselves at the periphery of the property: violence or threat of violence, stealing, continually disruptive loudness or rudeness, or socially immature or coercive behavior that threatens group cohesiveness.

To Interview

Please fill out an application form. You may then be invited to a preliminary 20-minute interview online. You may be invited to an extended interview. You need to either drive out to meet in person, in which case the interview is at no cost, and you can see the property. Alternatively, you need to pay $100 for your hour-long remote interview, and you will have access to photos and a video tour of the property.

Privacy

To not be overwhelmed by others in need, should an emergency arise, you must agree to limit knowledge of the details of this agreement to only the adult family members or friends included on the contract, and one distant relative or friend who could retrieve you in the event of extended disaster conditions. If you know others you would like to inform of the contract, let us know, and we will reach out to them if we have more spaces available.

References

Our intent is to accept only people who are word-of-mouth referrals. Others may need to provide up to three character references. Our hope is that the interview process will prevent inclusion of persons who have personality disorders that could cause extreme difficulty in the group. Stressful times can bring out the worst in people, so it will take an effort from all of us to stay in a pro-social and rational frame of mind.

Guaranteed Length of Stay

Most disasters can be ameliorated well before 2 months. For cases in which unsafe travel or living conditions persist, extended stay will be negotiated on a case-by-case basis, depending on the available provisions and the group’s willingness to support each other. Those willing and able to assist with gardening, hunting, or foraging are more likely to be invited to stay past the 3-month contract limit. Those with family or other trusted persons who are able to support them in other locations should inform a trusted person in advance of where to come to escort them out of the area.

Cost for 10-year Contract

  • For each adult or child 100 lbs or more:
  • For each additional child under 100 lbs:
  • For each dog over 100 lbs:
  • For each dog 50-99 lbs:
  • For each dog under 50 lbs:
  • Cats must be discussed and would only be an option for those in housing, not tents.

Further cost considerations:

  • In the event that you do not arrive at the property during an emergency, or if no emergency situation occurs during your 10-year contract, you will not receive a refund.
  • At the discretion of the owner and other contract-holders, you will have first option to renew the contract if you signal your intention to do so and pay at least 3 months before the end date of the contract.  

Transfer of Contract

This contract is transferrable only by agreement of the property owner. If you wish to sell your contract, a buyer might be available from a waiting list. If you leave the contract in your will, the designee(s) must complete an application and be approved. A record of criminal violence or severe psychiatric condition is likely to prevent approval.

Mediation

If the property owner fails to perform any agreed-on functions, or damage to property by a renter should occur, neither side will pursue monetary compensation in court without first in good faith seeking professionally licensed mediation services, to be paid for jointly and equally.

Legally Binding Signature

Both parties should receive a signed agreement. By signing, we both agree to these terms, which are valid only after receipt of payment, and which last 10 years from the date of signing:

Printed name(s): ___________________________________________________

Signed: ___________________________________________________________date: ________

Landowner acknowledges payment: ___________________________________ date: ________

Renter has paid for this lodging (indicate which house or campsite): ______________________ 

Renter has paid for this number of adults (including myself) ____, children____, and pets_____

Renter is beginning emergency stay on this date (this is to be signed if and when an emergency occurs):

Signed: __________________________________________________________date: ________

How to set up a shared rental house

What we would call a type of intentional community (IC), this author calls a community house. These function as a shared rental house with roommates who choose each other first and then find a house together. This arrangement can be a great fit for friends seeking affordable housing, single-parent coliving, an IC based on shared cultural values, or an IC as a work team. This author wanted to remain unnamed, though this is shared with permission. His words follow, with light edits.

[College town] had a lot of community houses 12 years ago. It was easy to get invites to their house parties on weekends. If a person wanted to rent a room, there were lots of houses to choose from. If you had a group of people, it wasn’t hard to find a house to rent. A lot of that has changed. It is still possible to start your own community house; it just takes a little more work. Community houses help support artsy people, activists, and musicians. This creates a better vibe in the neighborhoods than family houses, and single people sharing 2-bedroom apartments.

I’m providing here a background on community houses, and a strategy for how someone can create their own shared rental house, specifically in [PNW college town] in 2021.

photo by Xavier Lorenzo

Community-builder’s Background

I’ve been living in community houses since 1987, almost constantly. I’ve lived in houses and apartments of all sorts, with many other people. I’ve also visited lots of community houses to spend the night or a few days. I’m always interested in how different houses work. With different types and qualities of houses, different governance structures, and different ownership types.

I have established 10 community houses over the last 30 years, with various governance and ownership structures:

  • 5 rented directly from individual property owners
  • 2 rented from corporate property owners
  • 3 owned by me

I’ve experienced different lease structures:

  • 2 myself and the other residents were all on the lease together
  • 1 myself and some housemates were on the lease, but we sublet rooms to people who weren’t on the lease
  • 3 I was the only person on the lease, and I sublet rooms
  • 1 I was not on the lease, but other housemates were, and they sublet a room to me

I’ve experienced different types of governance:

  • horizontal shared governance
  • a subset of people make the decisions (part horizontal, part vertical)
  • I make all the decisions (vertical)

I’ve experienced different levels of communalism:

  • 5 were shared food, with some shared meals
  • some have had shared gardens, no compensation
  • in some I have paid people for gardening
  • various other levels of structured community activities

Short term vs. long term:

  • Most have been a mixture.

I have lived in all of these types of community houses. I have set up all of these types of community houses. They all have advantages, and they all have disadvantages. I had set up five community houses as a renter before I bought my first house to create a shared rental house. The social dynamics are different with each type.

Housing Age

  • Old, worn-out house: The classic community house is a big, well-worn house with lots of bedrooms, a garden, and some craft space. These are harder to find in [College town] than in the past, but they are still available. It just takes some work to catch one. Upsides: (a) rent is low per square foot, low per bedroom, (b) you can usually modify the house however you like, and (c) pets are usually fine. Downsides: (a) usually renters must put up with some cold in the winter, heat in the summer; (b) they are hard to clean (you can clean for an hour, and everything will still look about the same, as the floors are scratched and keep dirt, the kitchens are old material, with peeling countertops).
  • Renovated older house: These are common in [College town] now. To me they are not as much fun to live in, because the landlord will be fussy about carpets and paint. But these houses will be more comfortable to live in with regard to temperature and cleanliness.
  • Newish house: There are many big duplexes and townhouses in [College town]. You don’t get as big of a yard, but you get a modern house.

Ownership Types

There are different types of ownership, each with pros and cons:

  • Owned by a professional landlord: The landlord owns about 20 houses and does a lot of renting and repairs. They will have a fairly stringent application processes, but they will also take care of problems pretty well. The houses will feel less homey, as they are all repaired with very basic parts, since they need to keep things durable and easy to replace if damaged.
  • Owned by individuals: These are often houses that someone bought to to live in, then moved out of town  or into a bigger house. They don’t want to sell the house, because they might move back or keep it as an investment. These houses have much nicer finishings. The landlords will be fussier about care, because it is more expensive to repair damage to a nice house than one that was built or renovated as a rental house. However, these landlords will also likely be more flexible on lease terms if they like you and think you will take good care of the house. They are not trying to make as much profit as the professional landlords. They may be more flexible in terms of income, pets, and gardening. They often welcome gardening.
  • Living with the landlord: These are usually nicer houses than rental houses. They’ll be more eclectic in terms of rules, but often more flexible in rules. If you want to set up your own community house, you might find an empty-nester that has a couple of empty bedrooms and garden space, and is willing to have a group of people move in, in exchange for rent and help with maintenance, possibly including errands and driving for them, if elderly. [more about senior home sharing]

Identify Housemates

  1. See what sort of a core group you can muster up. Ask your friends, colleagues, current housemates, or put up an ad on Craigslist [or join ICmatch.org]. Try to get a core group of 2 or 3 committed, and an orbital group of maybes. 
  2. Identify potential roommates who agree on options for housing type, cost, and location. If you have a range of locations, prices, or housing types you might find acceptable, some of your possible housemates will be limited in one way or another. One might be happy in a run down house, another will only want a renovated house. Some might be willing to live far-out; some only close-in. To get a good house in a tight housing market, you’ll probably need to make some tradeoffs.
  3. Discuss with roommates what you can agree on in a shared house: conflict resolution, governance structure, pets and support animals, cleaning, noise, security, guests, parking, how one can get out of the lease,  conflict resolution, guests and partners, and COVID policy.

Governance Structures Suited for a Shared Rental House

Community houses may look similar to each other, but they may have completely different governance structures. The basic ones are as follows:

  • One person (or couple) is on the lease or owns the house, and rooms are sublet. The one person (or couple) makes the decisions.
  • Everyone is on the lease, with collective decision making.
  • Some people on the lease, some people subletting. If you have two or three solid core people, you can likely talk a landlord into renting the house to you and allowing sublets. There may be main decisions made by those on the lease, and minor decisions made collectively.

Other governance decisions, best made at the outset:

  • Different levels of shared things: Shared bulk foods? Shared garden costs? All foods shared? Regular community meals? All of these options can make the house more interesting and affordable for people.
  • Conflict resolution? How to minimize conflicts? What to do when difficult conflicts come up? How to have someone with irreconcilable differences move out?
  • Changes to house rules and policies?
  • Meeting schedule?

I currently most enjoy a type of community house that accommodates shorter-term rentals because (a) most of the rooms feel crowded if people start to accumulate things, and (b) I like living with a rotating cast of characters. As a result, my current Beech House is less consensus-based in governance. It’s difficult to have shared decision making with a large, changing, and diverse group of people.

How to Find a Property to Use as a Shared Rental House

With patience, you can snag a great house when one comes up! Be prepared to wait for your ideal house to come up for rent. You probably won’t get the first one, but eventually you’ll get one that works out well for you and your peeps.

  1. Start surfing Craigslist to see what is available. Typically, in [College town] 2021, it’s $3000 per month for a 4-bedroom house. It varies a bit with how big the house and yard is, the desirability of location, and the quality of finishing.
  2. To see what options are available in each classification, start surfing Craigslist for 4+ bedroom houses, price $2000 to $4000 per month, and see what is on the market. Make note of how fast different types of houses get rented.
  3. For a low-cost shared rental house, the key is to find one that can have a 5th bedroom converted from a garage, a basement, a family room, or an RV parking space. That way, the $3000 will be split five ways, for $600 each. Look for these features on potential rentals.
  4. Plug in these search terms: “3+ bedrooms, house, $2200 – $3800.” Go out and look at these houses. See what you get for $600 to $750 per bedroom. Even if you’re not ready to rent, you can see what is available and know how much house you can expect to get for a given amount of rent.

How to Successfully Apply for a Rental as a Group

There are some property owners who have had bad experiences with seemingly qualified applicants in the past. Some are reluctant to post their homes for rent because the laws are such that they must rent to the first qualified applicant or risk being accused of some kind of discrimination. Some may be waiting for a word-of-mouth connection. Some look through the “housing wanted” posts to try to identify the best tenants.

  1. Create “housing wanted” ads, including on Craigslist.
  2. Get all possible roommates to complete a joint rental application. Download a rental application from the internet and fill it out. It will ask for social security numbers (for credit checks), bank accounts, credit cards, pets, musical instruments, cars, waterbeds, and lots of other questions. It will take an hour or two to get it filled out.
  3. Collect a current resume from everyone. Print it out on good quality paper.
  4. Get everyone to fill out previous landlord history and letters of recommendation.
  5. Put together a cover letter for your group. Include pictures, hobbies, why you all want to live together, and what you plan to do with the house. Make “eye contact” in the photos.
  6. Use social media, if you like. You might include a professional portfolio, art, and music from the group.
  7. Share your Craigslist “housing wanted” ad on your social media platforms. When a house comes up that you are interested in, give them the link to your housing wanted post when you reply to their “housing available” post.
  • Make assignments so that the group is checking Craigslist twice per day, looking for the perfect “4-bedroom with garage” or “4-bedroom with basement” type house. When one comes up, and you are interested, you want to be the very first applicant. Call them up, have a subset of your group go and see it within 24 hours, and if you want to try to rent it, have your stack of printed application forms ready. The landlord’s application form will likely be a little different, but you’ll have all the information you need. You can hand them the stack of resumes and the cover letter. Scan or photograph the completed applications to your co-applicants, so they can digitally sign them and get them back to the landlord within a couple hours.
  • A strong application may also mean you can negotiate a concession such as the following: convince them to let you have a cat or a dog, allow you to have one subletter who is not on the lease, plant a garden, get a $100 break in rent in exchange for making a repair or modification, or add another bedroom if needed.

To be a highly desirable group of tenants, you want to put all of your material together before trying to rent a place. Do a lot of extra preparation. It will impress landlords; they will want to rent their house to you. A landlord’s nightmare is a group of people that can’t figure out how to pay rent, can’t report small problems before they become big problems, bother the neighbors, and don’t keep the place clean. If you have a sleek application package, they will assume that you’ll be decent tenants.

Add a Bedroom for a More Affordable Shared Rental House

I have converted at least 13 bedrooms out of other spaces over the last 25 years. A basement partition can be done with $500 in materials: 2x4s, sheetrock, paint, weatherproofing. Same with a garage with a loft. Sometimes all it takes is a door on a family room and you have another bedroom. Make it look good; figure out heat, insulation, and ventilation; and you now have a 5-bedroom house for the price of a 4-bedroom house. You can add extra outlets for about $200. You can do this in a way that it can be completely removed in about 2 hours if at some point you must reverse the construction. You can also have an RV if there is a driveway. You might build a tiny house on wheels or in the back. People in outdoor “bedrooms” can come in the shared rental house for living space.

We need more community houses! Best of luck creating yours.