Search Database for Members and Groups

This site can help people with particular preferences to find each other. This search can bring up individual and group profiles. You can select more than one option in each field. Select options that match what you’re looking for in a community and traits of the people who you’d share it with. Leave any field blank if you are okay with all options for that set of choices.

Ownership types:

Residential proximity:

My gender identity + number:

Couple situations within IC:

Hookup culture within IC:


Preferred regions of North America:

Privacy Features

You can wait to share your identity when you are ready to. We ask you to use a display name that is not your real name. Instead of a photo, we provide a program by which you create a memoji, a picture representation of yourself. By not sharing your identity up front, you can feel more comfortable being honest and detailed about personal preferences. Direct messaging lets you ask questions and view someone else’s profile before sharing your contact information.

Profile Matching

ICmatch has a powerful backend matching function to allow you to be precise about what characteristics are deal-breakers and which are a must. Members will only get matched with others if (a) they answer the 25 mandatory matching questions (indicated by asterisk *) and (b) at least one of their multiple choice responses overlaps for at least 12 of the questions. You can match others in three categories: place, work, or relationship. We ask you to invest time by thoughtfully answering all of the questions. When ready, you can send external links or contact information thru our free messaging service. We want it to be easy and functional. We’ll send you an email when you get a match with a newly created profile, or when someone changes their profile and it becomes a match. From there, you can investigate compatibility further by reading the profiles of your matches.

Profiles Stay Active

If you’ve ever been on a site where you message others and get no response, you may have wondered how many inactive past users you are messaging. Our requirements ensure that profiles you are matched with belong to recently active users. Profiles that aren’t logged into regularly or that aren’t completed will eventually be deleted. That means you probably won’t be writing to ghost profiles or people who share very little about themselves.