1. Learn about the norms of your host country.

Study expat sites specific to your chosen location to learn cultural norms and avoid being unintentionally disrespectful. Is bargaining rude or is it expected? Is a tip welcome or insulting? Is taking selfies in a religious site frowned on?

2. Make an effort with the language.

While you may never become fluent in their language, a little effort can go a long way. Start with learning how to say in the local language “hello,” “goodbye,” “thank you,” ‘”please,” “yes,” “no,” and “I know very few words.” It’s especially important to study up on how to interpret road and other travel-related signs, so that you can comply with regulations.

3. Follow laws and regulations.

Foreign life is not where you want to give expression to your rebel tendencies. Out of respect to your host nation, and for your own safety, make a point to learn and follow your host nation’s rules. The consequences of not doing so could be a lot more severe for foreigners. Take it from the experts: it’s essential to keep your finances in order and report accurately.

4. Avoid controversial topics.

You might be an adventurous type who relishes debate, but you might need to save it for your fellow expats. Until you know a culture thoroughly, it’s best to keep your political and religious opinions to yourself. If you are LGBTQ+, thoroughly research ahead of time both the laws of a country as well as what attitudes and behaviors are common toward your group. Research international and local organizations that do queer advocacy work. They can provide a more accurate and nuanced understanding of norms than what is stated as legal mandate. Best to talk to people before uprooting!

5. Help rather than compete with the locals.

Buying semi-rural or rural property together as expats may result in a more affordable location in a scenic spot. Yet take a look at the larger picture. Are relatively wealthy outsiders like you causing the rents or purchasable land to rise out of the price range of locals? If you are part of this trend, consider purchasing instead in areas that are workable for you but are not workable for the nationals. For example, there are villages emptying as people move to find work. These might be ideal locations to re-populate with digital nomads and retirees. You will do well to communicate with your neighbors and be an ally, not a source of aggravation. If you do find yourself having lessened the quality of life for locals, find a way to give back. Make sure it is a contribution valued by the locals, or better yet, suggested by the locals.