Make sure that you have completed the sign up steps. Tell friends about the website so they can sign up and see how well you match. Take the time to answer all the questions. You never know which are most important for others to know. Others might feel more comfortable contacting you when you show you’re serious about letting them know who you are. You might also consider being more open about what traits or situations you will accept. Yet it’s best to stay consistent with what you actually prefer and believe. You’ll only set yourself up for frustration—and eventually annoy others—if you try to present yourself in a way you think others would be impressed by, but doesn’t match how you typically are.